Plays Well With Others: A 3000% Return

 Every report card period my boys come home with a set of marks showing how they are doing in school. When they were in their primary grades there was always a section giving us an idea of how they were doing socially. “Plays Well With Others” was always at the top of the list of items on the report card. For every child this is one of the most important life skills they need to learn!

Having been involved in Christian ministry for over 25 years, I have often heard this same principle taught in the Church. Playing or working well with others may not be an exact scriptural quotation, but we have all likely heard “We want to be a Kingdom Church” or “We want to work with the whole Body of Christ to see our community transformed”. Hearing these things I’ve always looked for examples to show me what that looks like. I don’t mean churches or organizations having special events together once or twice a year, but really unselfishly giving of themselves to each other and to the community. Working together in order to see real community-building relationships.

This past month I’ve seen some of the greatest examples of churches and organizations working well together to see their community transformed.

Today I was in a village that is likely the greatest story of working together I’ve ever personally encountered. Two years ago I made my first visit to this village in Kampong Chhnang. Pastor Say was a pastor who had moved with a group of people into the forest to start a new village for those who were poor and had no land or possessions. Samaritan’s Purse worked there with the Seeds of Hope project to assist people trying to build a new life for themselves with pig raising, chicken raising, vegetable gardening and water wells.

On my visit today I was with a partner organization with Samaritan's Purse working with villagers to build BioSand water filters to provide everyone with clean drinking water. I was shocked as we worked with the villagers and they began telling what has happened over the last two years. We were introduced to five pastors, all who had planted churches in the village. Unfortunately, my first reaction was “Oh, no why would a village need five churches, why not just one or two?” I guess I was expecting the pastors to start competing for attention or start trying to one-up each other with stories. Many times my experiences where there are multiple churches in an area is that they compete and sometimes fight with one another instead of work together.

But today was different, they were all working together with us. They were laughing together, probably “at” us as they watched these white men work with Cambodian tools. They appeared to truly be friends. What I realized as I watched them talk and work is that they were working together with an entire village, not just to plant  churches, but to help people start a new life, both spiritually and physically. They were helping the village work together to develop a community. If the village didn’t work together there would be no future, especially for their children.  It made me begin to think, “Is this what Christian ministry should look like?”

The result of working together was phenomenal! As we talked I casually asked how many people in the village were now Christian. One of the pastors said, “Oh, about 60 percent of the village I guess.” The others looked at each other, said a few words to each other, and then everyone agreed that was about right. Now, I don’t know about you, but how many pastors in your community could say they have worked with 4 other pastors to see 60 percent of their community come to Christ in the last 2 to 3 years. To put it in a different perspective though, stop and think about this. Cambodia has very few Christians. Less than 2% of the population of the country are Christians. These five churches have worked together to see that miraculously changed in their community.

That is a 3,000% increase over the rest of their country.  I guess what Henry Ford said is right:

"Coming together is a beginning: keeping together is progress; working together is success."

And oh yeah, I forgot to mention that the household income of the villagers has increased, people’s health has improved and families are stronger than they’ve ever been before!

Learning an Asia Language isn't for Wimps!

In linguistics, lexical similarity is a measure of the degree to which the word sets of two given languages are similar. A lexical similarity of 1 (or 100%) would mean a total overlap between vocabularies, whereas 0 means there are no common words. For example, German has a 60% lexical similarity to English.  Furthermore, most western countries use what is called the Latin “alphabet”. This makes it very easy as a beginner to study and learn languages like Spanish or French because it is written in letters and characters that make it easy for us to understand.

Latin Alphabet World Distribution

The dark green areas shows the countries where this alphabet is the sole main script. The light green shows the countries where the alphabet co-exists with other scripts.

Now, if you look at the map closely, Cambodia is in the grey. This is when I say to myself sometimes during language study, why didn’t God send me to a GREEN COUNTRY! This would have made my life so much easier.  I do have to make another confession right now and say that sometimes I even go on to say “Those Latin American or African Missionaries have it so easy!” OK, so hopefully you can overlook this character flaw in me!

So, here is an example of the Khmer written script:

This is what I tell my language tutor every week, "SLOW DOWN, please!"

The Khmer language is influenced predominately by Sanskrit and Pali through the vehicle  of Hinduism and Buddhism and is the official language of only one country in the world with a population of 14 million.  Now, if your thinking this can’t be much further from the Latin alphabet and English language then you are right! Which is why Cambodia is exactly half way around the world from Texas!

Sometimes, and quite often, I think back at just how easy it was taking Spanish and French when I was at university.  I now often laugh at myself remembering how I moaned and cried about how hard it was to learn a new language back then.  My hat goes off to anyone who is learning an Asian language that does not use the Latin alphabet.

Danny, my language tutor

So, what compels me to learn this most difficult language?  It is my deep desire for one goal. My desire is to be able to go out to remote villages with my medical bag and medications and help those people who would otherwise not be able to receive healthcare due to poverty. I want to be able to go without a translator. I enjoy using my healthcare knowledge to unconditionally serve others. That is what is the most fun to me. That is when I am happy. 

So, I am still plugging away at language learning…..it’s not my gifting, but my desire still burns to learn. As long as God continues to put people in my life here in Cambodia that need medical help then I will continue to learn this fascinating, but difficult to pronounce language.